Let me share some tips that will help you become an Extra-ordinary woman, A super woman
First thing, is to love yourself Cherish yourself and never apologize for putting yourself first. Take care of yourself physically, spiritually, and mentally.
Stop worrying yourself over what people are saying about you, just keep your head up high and walk majestically as the queen that you are.
Never give power to anyone to talk you down. Realize that you are beautiful and wonderfully created by God. Know your worth and never allow anyone to treat you bad, everyone deserves to be treated well.
Have a personal relationship with your Creator, God. Pray and trust God in whatever situation you are.
Never dim your light in order to please anyone.
Focus on your career ; learn something new to improve your service in your place of work, go back to school if necessary. Learn a trade as a side hustle. And if you are into business already, take care of your business like it’s the only thing you have.
Become independent and self sufficient, you are more powerful than you know. Realise that in this life nothing is free so be diligent in your work.
Ladies, gain the highest level of education if you can and ensure you are financially secured. It’s more fulfilling when you can take care of your little needs than depending on a man for the rest of your life.
Live a portion of your life for you, that way you will be a fulfilled person with more wisdom to hand down to your kids.
Don’t rush for anything, everything happens at the right time. Take your time to embrace what you have and who you are. Then work towards who you want to be as a person.
Never lose yourself when helping people, do the little you can do. Remember you can never please everyone no matter how hard you try. Learn how to say NO to things or people that don’t bring light into your life and it’s okay.
Experience is a good teacher, experience more life to learn and understand who you are. More importantly always learn from other people’s experience and make better decisions for yourself.
Cut off negative people from your life. Realize that you are enough and don’t let anyone tell you differently. So don’t allow inferiority or a feeling of inadequacy force you to stick with people that are obviously negative.
Beauty is of the inside, it’s not the outward appearance that determines how beautiful you are. Let modesty be a way of living your life. you are wonderfully created, yes! And that doesn’t mean you have to show your naked body off to the world in the name of fashion and trends.
Be humble and respect people. You should know when to talk and when to be silent. Try listening more than you talk. Also taste your words before you say them because you can’t retrieve spoken words.
To the married women, respect your husband and recognize his leadership in the home. Never, disrespect your man at all whether in public or in the bedroom. Men value respect so much.
Avoid Unhealthy Comparison. Don’t use Mrs A and Mrs B family as a yardstick to runs your home. What works for Mrs A and B, might not work for you.
Stop passing judgment and looking down on people especially some of your friends who are still singles or separated. You haven’t walked in their shoes and you know nothing about their struggles. Focus on bettering yourself.
To the single ladies, love yourself, care for yourself. Build up every area of your life not just your looks. If you want to make your dreams come true, invest in yourself first. The right man will come along when you least expect it.
Don’t be afraid of starting over. Live life with no regrets learn from every failure. Never lower your standards to please anyone, never underestimate your potentials. One bad experience doesn’t define you.
Never stay in an abusive/toxic relationship. Pay attention to their actions not their words. Don’t ignore the red flags. Set your boundaries. You teach people how to treat you by what you are willing to accept. Be kind to yourself, you are the one person that matters at the end of the day.
If a man truly loves you, he will support your dreams as you support him too. A relationship is all about adding values to each other. Impacting each other positively and being happy for each other’s growth.
Have some respect and morals for yourself, don’t be afraid of being alone and starting all over again. Don’t let anyone make you feel like you are not enough. Don’t lose your voice. Always speak your mind.
Don’t compromise your integrity for fake love. Let their actions show you who they are not the words coming out of their mouth.
Don’t rush life, focus on your growth. Avoid unnecessary debts. Surround yourself with people that will help you grow.
Lastly while Satan was tempting Eve in the garden he reassured her, “Surely, you will not die.” (Gen. 3:4)
That’s how it is with living in sin. The devil makes it seem pleasurable and reassures that there won’t be any repercussions for it. But there always is. Always will be. Sin is ruinous.
you are doing just fine.
Post is written and contributed to great values by AGOFURE EJIRO.
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